Lachlan Stuart

Would YOU Date YOU? I remember the first time I heard this question. My ex girlfriend threw it in my face as I was begging for her forgiveness. I was at work and she sent me a message "Where did you stay saturday"… That question instantly made my heart race, the hairs on my arms prick up and my mind start to race… I knew exactly where I had stayed… and I shouldn't have been there. I went into 'save the relationship at all costs' mode… This moment was a huge turning point in my life and that...

What I'm Doing At 33 To Avoid Regrets At 63 Have you fallen into this trap? You’re not too different from me. You grew up and were sold the dream life path that includes going to school, getting a job, building a career, getting married, starting a family, purchasing a home, and eventually retiring. People flock to this because its order makes it feel like natural progression. We love having a path. Even if it’s not a path we choose You love progress, I love progress. It gives our life...

Being Judged will make you a better man (Learnings from NFL draft) This weekend I watched my first NFL draft... It was fascinating. The selected few had their lives changed... while the others went home empty handed. For context... 257 men were drafted... there were around 3000 in the draft pool. I want to dive into what this taught me about life & how to be a high performing man. For context in this newsletter. Let's agree that High Performing means doing everything to the best of your...

It’s not enough to be busy; so are the ants. The question is: What are we busy about? -- Henry David Throeau I’ve spent much of my working life believing the harder I work, the more successful I will be... What I have realised is that if ‘hard work’ is your definition of success, you will achieve plenty of success. Unfortunately for me... that isn’t the success I was chasing. Success for me is having the financial means to live my dream life ($772,740/ year), having time & emotional awareness...

Don't Let Work Steal Your Life: A Modern Epidemic The key is not to prioritize what’s on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities. - Steven Covey Have you ever thought “Work is stealing my life”? You're watching the years fly by and your life hasn’t changed? The years have been a mix of excitement, clouded by stress and burnout. It's one of the most common reasons men are joining The Man That Can Project -- to establish work/life balance. Work has taken over. If you’re not in the...

Find Your Tribe (It's Not Too Late) Without a sense of belonging, individuals and communities suffer; with it, they thrive There are events that you go to, that you; Never want to leave Can’t wait to leave Why is that? The short version... You feel a sense of belonging because You are valued Common interests Have purpose in the environment Authentically you Why is it that 3 in 4 Americans (Australia is a little less) don’t feel a sense of belonging in at least one area of their life? And why...

You are your ticket to living a great life (3 steps to freedom) Not how long, but how well have you lived is the main thing “Not how long, but how well have you lived is the main thing” Isn't it exhilarating that we now have... Access to exceptional healthcare Building an online community has never been easier Creating your dream lifestyle is within reach If you agree, you will love what you’re about to read… If you disagree, stick around as this may change how you see the world. I truly...

Failure Teaches You Better Than Success Change Your Life In 3-6 months I am a failure…I remember having this thought when I received my grade 12 certificate… the score I received didn’t leave me with many exciting university prospects. I am a failure As far as I could see, in that moment, I was granted a life of mediocrity. I figured that because my score was low, I wouldn’t be able to study anything meaningful, I wouldn’t get a respectable job and I’d never gain respect, love or the life I...

How To Create A Better Life For Yourself It pulled me from rock bottom. Are you sick of seeing people on the internet (like me) saying things like… “Build a life you don’t need a break from” “Live your dream life” “Create a better life for yourself” I know I was. I remember seeing posts & thinking to myself “Piss off”. It really got under my skin and I never really asked why. If I were to answer that now it would be because I WANTED a better life, but I was just to stuck to make change… I was...